Dealing with Older Members at a Private Golf Club – A Mixed Bag of Experiences

Navigating the challenges of joining a country club with older members and their attitudes.

I recently made the move to join a country club, and while there’s been some pros such as meeting great people to golf with, especially since I’m new to the area, I am really turned off by the attitudes and entitlement by the older members.

Summary

  • The clash between younger and older members due to shifting demographics.
  • Complaints about older members ignoring tee time rules and slowing down play.
  • Suggestions from commenters on improving the club atmosphere and addressing issues.
  • Diverse experiences of new members adapting to the club’s culture.

Challenges of Club Culture

Private clubs are known for gatekeeping and resistance to change, often led by older members who prefer status quo.

Improving Club Dynamics

Strategies like implementing fines for unused tee times and adding family-friendly features can address grievances.

Generational Shifts

The influx of younger members can lead to positive changes and modernizing the club’s offerings, benefiting all members.